How do I get past the friendship into the romance?
January 26th, 2009 | by Andy |
Jamie B asked:
We’ve been friends for 2 years….a month ago we were intimate (yes, like that) for about 3 days. She then said “we are going too fast” “I need some space”…and now we are back into the friendship with mild flirting. She calls me 2-3 times a day but anytime I get overly romantic she changes the subject. Doesnt she understand I dont wanna be just friends anymore? Especially after the ***. Help! Is this a lost cause or what?
Sir
We’ve been friends for 2 years….a month ago we were intimate (yes, like that) for about 3 days. She then said “we are going too fast” “I need some space”…and now we are back into the friendship with mild flirting. She calls me 2-3 times a day but anytime I get overly romantic she changes the subject. Doesnt she understand I dont wanna be just friends anymore? Especially after the ***. Help! Is this a lost cause or what?
Sir
Tags: Flirting, Friendship, Just Friends, Romance, Sex Help
12 Responses to “How do I get past the friendship into the romance?”
By fancy unicorn on Jan 28, 2009 | Reply
The pants and into the pants and into the underwear zing.
By John K on Jan 29, 2009 | Reply
move on she if she will chase, probably a lost cause
By just ME on Jan 31, 2009 | Reply
You need a laugh:
By ONELOVE on Feb 3, 2009 | Reply
idk if it was me i’d be so happy to have finally be more than friends.
maybe…. shes just a bit**.
im sorryyy
By timesarechanging on Feb 3, 2009 | Reply
I think you need to watch that new movie He’s Just Not That Into You. In this case, unfortunatelyy, she’s just not that into you and wants to keep her options open.
By Hollywood Prod. on Feb 6, 2009 | Reply
If you go past two days without getting intimate then ya it’s a rap as we say here in Hollywood
By Soccor+Diva=Bffl! on Feb 7, 2009 | Reply
Diva: Eww U had it with her? Not cool Bro! lol
By katherine on Feb 8, 2009 | Reply
Why not try asking her about it instead of just being romantic ask her how she feels and if she is interested in pursuing it further. Tell her how your feeling and see where it goes, at least then she will no how your feeling and you have nothing to lose by asking her about it, but if your not upfront about it you might not get beyond flirting.
By hotguy_091 on Feb 8, 2009 | Reply
The more try push it more try push it more try push it more she needs time thnk abt thngs so give her but some times fear of trust tht were intimate with me bothers her time thnk abt thngs so give her time thnk abt thngs.
The more try push it more try push it more try push it more she goes far 4rm.
By Ansel on Feb 12, 2009 | Reply
My point is tell her you want romantic relationship but one day we kissed and things are going great weve been friends.
By Daniel M on Feb 13, 2009 | Reply
If she calls you 2-3 times a day, that means there’s still something there. If you really want to be more than just friends, why not just tell it flat out to her face and see what happens?
By A.J. on Feb 15, 2009 | Reply
i think she likes you too but she’s just afraid to get to imitate with you again.